FAQ

General FAQ

How can I get the Verified Artist/Seller role?

Please go to the Open-A-Ticket channel in the Discord server. There is an option to open a ticket specifically for getting the verified artist/seller role.

Why should I verify my age?

Verification is in place to protect you, other members and the server itself. Though it is not a requirement, we highly recommend that you verify your age. By verifying, you will receive access to the IRL Lewds sections, Lewd/Extreme Kink Chat and dedicated 18+ verified voice channels. We also give you the Verified 18+ role for peace of mind for yourself, and others.

I left and rejoined the server, can I get my 18+ role and access back?

If you left and rejoined the server, please open a verify ticket and let us know that you had the role previously. If our logs show that you previously had the role, then we can re-apply it. If we’re unable to match or find evidence of this in our logs, then you will need follow the standard process for age verification again.

Moderation FAQ

When issues or concerns are raised, we have processes and procedures in place to ensure that we remain fair, impartial, and also to make sure that we are dealing with them appropriately. We take every report and concern seriously. We take a logical and realistic approach to concerns, and a such, we can only take action based on the evidence presented to us.
Please see below some common examples as well as our approach towards moderating them.

A person in the server has directly made comments, or directly interacted with me in a way that makes me feel uncomfortable or targeted. What do I do?

• You can DM the user, and in a clear statement, inform them that you’re not comfortable with their actions and tell them not to interact with you moving forward. Block the user to prevent any further interaction. Please make sure to screenshot your messages in case you need to use them as evidence at a later date. (If you’re not comfortable messaging the user, please raise a ticket and ask the staff team to put the DNI in place on your behalf if there is too much tension and friction).
• If any further interactions from the member breaches your previous statement, please ensure you have these messages screenshotted and open a ticket within the server to address the issue with staff. Within this ticket we request you include the screenshots aforementioned and be adequately prepared to express your concerns.
• If the evidence is apparent that the user is breaching your statement, this could potentially fall under our harassment rule and will be handled accordingly.

A new member just joined the server and an existing member immediately began to make harsh, hurtful, unwelcoming, or disrespectful comments towards the new joiner. What do I do?

• The existing member may just be joking, but this doesn’t encourage a welcoming environment. This behavior from the existing member is not OK. New members should be welcomed into the community in a positive and inviting way.
• You can raise a ticket and report your concern. Where possible provide screenshots or messages links relating to the occurrence.

A person in the server said something that made me feel uncomfortable. It wasn’t directed at me personally, but I still felt uncomfortable by what this person said. What do I do?

• Block the member if you don’t like what they are saying. If it isn’t directed at you personally, then the best advice is to ignore them.
• In most cases we won’t get involved with this if it isn’t against our rules.
• We want everyone to feel safe here, though we try to strike a balance where we are allowing people to joke around, have fun and enjoy themselves.

I have concerns that someone is underage but I’m unable to provide evidence to back it up. What can I do?

• Each report is dealt with on a case by case basis. Please keep this in mind as each concern is reviewed and taken seriously regardless of evidence shown! Screenshots and/or evidence confirming your suspicions are encouraged and appropriate actions will be taken to ensure the server remains 18+!
• Without evidence to backup the claim, we may not be able to take action. Though genuine concerns will be listened to, and in some cases, the staff team may carry out some additional due diligence tasks in relation to the user of concern.

I requested art from someone with the Verified Artist role, I’ve paid them and I still haven’t received the art. What do I do?

• Wait a reasonable amount of time for them to finish the art.
• If you’re still waiting, provide them with a clear expectation for when you expect the art to be completed. (Ensure you provide a realistic time frame for them to work on it)
• Where finished works are not provided, open a ticket – if the user has the verified artist role, staff may get involved to try and help resolve the issue.

I saw a user do something that is against the rules, or against the law. What do I do?

• Report it via a ticket. Attach screenshots or any form of evidence where possible!
• Don’t be afraid to open a ticket, even without evidence, each report is taken seriously. However with that said, they’re dealt with on a case by case basis so having evidence will make it easier to address the issue.
• For major concerns surrounding a users activity, please reach out to Discord Trust and Safety. As a server, there is only so much we can do; we want to be as fair as possible to every member so without proper evidence there’s a high possibility we may not be able to take action.